There are 5 habits we do every day, and that most of us take for granted. They are the basic skills needed to function well in everyday life, well before the more complex elements of household management and navigation in a modern society come in to play.
Yet when we are unable or unwilling to perform them, it’s time to ask for help from those around us, as they are the foundation stones on which all other skills rest. These are the things that our primary carers would have taught us to do by the time we were ready to leave home and almost all of us will have done today.
- Get up and make your bed
- Perform a personal hygiene routine and dress appropriately
- Prepare and eat a nutritious hot meal
- Movement and physical maintenance
- Interact socially and do something creative and productive
These can be viewed as a stack, and performing one allows the next to take place more efficiently. The inclusion of creation and productivity in the list, is in my mind, crucial, as it allows us to express an important element of our personality, and its presence or absence is an indicator in our mental, as well as physical health.
The habit most people will tend to misunderstand and misinterpret is that of movement and physical maintenance. Here, there are 3 basic skills that we should be able to perform unless we have a diagnosed impairment. And, as above, the inability to do these indicates that we need to check in with an appropriate professional for support and to allow us to regain them, or plan to mitigate the risk of losing that element of independence.
- Get off the floor from lying on your front
- Get off the floor from lying on your back
- Walk a mile with a moderately heavy load
These use all the primal movements (push / pull / flex / twist / squat / lunge / walk), as well as the fundamental human expression of gait.
Physical maintenance is the skill of daily self care, being able to mobilise and strengthen the body, with stretching, joint position awareness, breathing exercises and strength training. If starting this practice, after a period of relative immobility, then it is recommended that you start gently, focusing on the ankles, hips and shoulder girdle, with breathing as a guide.