As humans, we like rules. They reduce cognitive load, and give us something to fall back on when making decisions. For me, I have developed 3 to reflect on and work with.
The first is from Kurt Vonnegut, who, in God Bless you, Mr Rosewood, wrote:
“Hello babies. Welcome to Earth. It’s hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It’s round and wet and crowded. On the outside, babies, you’ve got a hundred years here. There’s only one rule that I know of, babies-“God damn it, you’ve got to be kind”
The second comes from Col. Chris Hatfield, astronaut and all round good Canadian.
“In any new situation, whether it involves an elevator or a rocket ship, you will almost certainly be viewed in one of three ways. As a minus one: actively harmful, someone who creates problems. Or as a zero: your impact is neutral and doesn’t tip the balance one way or the other. Or you’ll be seen as a plus one: someone who actively adds value. Everyone wants to be a plus one, of course. But proclaiming your plus-oneness at the outset almost guarantees you’ll be perceived as a minus one, regardless of the skills you bring to the table or how you actually perform.
I’ve translated that to be “Be useful”
If the most useful thing you can do it sweep the floor, do it. Don’t think the job is beneath you, but don’t end up being the one who always does it. Look at the team around you and see what they need doing.
The third came from a delightful polymath I had the pleasure of meeting. A physicist, screenwriter and doctor, he had one tip for surviving without burning out in a career. He said:
“Within in each of us, no matter how old, there remains an 8 year old child. Insatiably curious, always wanting to learn, to grow. Always find something to be curious about, to keep that inner person happy and delighted”
With those three guides to reflect on, I often feel I have a decent path forwards.
- Be kind
- Be useful
- Be curious
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