On: Finding the one thing

Sometimes it takes only one thing to start the rock rolling, the pebble that is stopping the landslide of success.

Sometimes, once you find that one thing, everything else falls into place and it becomes brighter, easier, smoother.

However, finding that one thing is very difficult, as it is different for person, goal, and phase of life.

And sometimes, it doesn’t matter what the thing is, as starting anything can help.

Maybe you want to lose weight for health reasons (there aren’t really any other valid ones). Maybe you feel you need to improve your fitness (there could be a couple of reasons here), perhaps you feel stuck in a relationship (a multitude of reasons in there), or you’re at a fork in the road with regards to career.

Lets take health (we are a health organisation after all) and weight management. There is ostensibly a simple recipe for this. You want to lose weight, burn more calories than you consume, you want to gain wait, eat more. Now, lets take into consideration motivation, working and life paatterns, underlying health status, stress, prior exercise history, gender, nutritional history and current nutritional status and see how we go? Which one thing is going to unlock the magic box of slimmer?

For most people wanting to lose weight, it will simply being aware of what they eat and when. That awareness helps them tune their consumption. For others, who have a reasonably good grasp on it, moving a bit more frequently and with higher intensity could be the key. A more complex case might be the older person with underlying health conditions, who will need more close monitoring, motivation and coaching to ensure they maintain both good nutrition and reduced risk.

To find your one thing, contact us for a consultation. We don’t just do manual therapies, we support weight management journeys, fitness plans, proactive healthcare discussions and personal accountability coaching.

On: failure

If you try to do too much in one go, you’ll fail.

You’ll fail because change requires effort and energy to sustain and you only have so much of it to go around.

Getting up earlier requires going to be earlier. But you can’t do that if you have commitments that keep you busy.

Cleaning up your diet requires knowledge, planning, effort.

Going to the gym is bullshit. I love gyms, they’re generally my safe place, but they are not the panacea sold by fitness grifters. Gyms are a place of effort, learning, painful self reflection. Go when you are ready for the lesson and can take humility in your kitbag.

Meditation and mindfulness are not solutions, they’re tools. If you can’t accept the dancing monkeys in your head, you’re not going to want to spend any time with them.

And after all that negativity?

Get rid of something. Less is far easier to manage than more.

Stop drinking. Stop smoking. Stop scrolling. If you can’t, accept you might have an addition issue and ask for support.

Walk more, drive less.

Throw out something from your house. It’s almost certainly clutter and there’s a probability someone else could benefit.

Positive deeds are loops. One feeds another. Make space for positive things.

We can offer some of this support.

An exercise review. A safe space to work through basic coaching issues, treatment to give your body space in itself to heal. A motivating kick and gentle reminder that being human takes effort but is worth it.

But make space. Do less, just do less better.

Be kind, be curious.

On: Fitness

A colleague had started going to the gym “to get fitter”. While admirable and absolutely to be celebrated, I did wonder how they would know when they had achieved that goal.

After some reflection, and a walk, I developed the thought that fitness can be broken down into 2 main components. A duration / distance one, and a strength / durability one.

Duration / distance is comparatively simple. Can the person go further, for longer, or faster. These are goals that can be defined, measured and checked. Walk for a mile, walk for an hour, finish a 5k event, run a marathon, cycle for 3 hours, push the wheelchair to the shops.

The other component is harder to measure. Yes, strength can be measured by increasing the amount you can move against resistance and for how long. But that doesn’t tend to serve an end purpose. I would posit that the role of strength for the vast majority of people, athletes included, is to help them carry out a defined task with more capacity, to be more durable and to recover faster. In Crossfit this may be to complete the prescribed workout faster, or with less fatigue. For others, it may be to be able to carry a child, lift down a suitcase or spend longer with their family before tiring. And for all, it should help reduce the risk of injury.

By redefining our initial goal of fitness, we can review the strength component in this capacity and then prescribe the correct stimulus to get the desired response.

Instead of saying you want to get fitter, define a goal, and a measurable, meaningful outcome. Then tune the exercise to that.

The big secret the fitness industry doesn’t want you to know.

They’re lying to you. They have been for years and maybe even they’re lying to themselves.

They’re selling you all these messages and machines and plans and regimes. And they’re not going to work, leaving you disappointed and looking for the next big secret. The next short cut.

So, what is the secret they don’t want you to know?

Exercise won’t make you lose weight. Diet won’t get you fitter.

All the booty classes and HIIT training and smoothies and shakes don’t work alone.

Maybe if you’re running 5-6 hours plus a week then yes. You may lose some weight. You are going to create a significant enough caloric deficit to see a difference. But not much and not for a sustained period. If you don’t back it up with a solid refuelling and recovery strategy.

You’ve got to do both, in the correct proportions.

Look at a visually super fit person, that influencer, gym bunny. Not only are they exercising frequently, they’re looking after their nutrition. They’re not completing the circuit class and immediately down the coffee shop for a syrupy latte. The inside is reflected on the outside.

Exercise is for fitness, nutrition is for weight management. The combination leads to improved health. Which is reflected in your physique.

You don’t need their latest method or protocol or supplement. It’s been said before but you don’t like it because it’s hard and slow and repetitive and dull.

  • Eat to sustain activity, refuel and recover.
  • Eat occasionally for pleasure.
  • Exercise to improve muscle mass
  • Exercise to improve cardiovascular health
  • Exercise to maintain balance and skill
  • Exercise because it’s fun
  • Do it regularly and seek healthcare advice when something seems wrong for a while.

Simple is not the same as easy. But consistency and iteration works.

On: Toxic Productivity

Rise and grind.

Hustle harder.

Do this one thing to be 10x more productive.

Entrepreneurs and millionaires do this one thing to be more productive.

This stuff is pushed at us all the time.

The secret trick to getting more done, the subconsious message that we are not being as productive as we could be, that we could do more, get more, have more shiny things.

Why? Why be more productive just for the sake of it? Why push yourself, risk burning the candle too far, neglecting the things that are actually important for the things that we are told are, but are simply marketing mush for someones company.

Step back, slow down, reassess.

Turn the question around. Am I doing enough to be satisfied? Do you need the second job, the productivity hack, the apparent short cut? If you do for financial reasons, then accept that, it sucks, especially if it is out of your control. If you are doing it to keep up with the challenges at where you work, are the pressures on you realistic or are the people above you using you?

Any why are we talking about this at a health clinic? Because that pressure to be “more” can have negative consequences on your mental and physical health. Yes, pushing to complete a specific goal is sometimes worth the expended effort and the recovery time after, but to keep that up endlessly leads to the wheels falling off at some unspecified time in the future, which can make you more of a liability.

Instead, aim for minimal effective dose. The least output required to exceed your needs. This leaves some in the metaphorical tank for situations beyond control, develops stress resilience and still allows you to meet the expectations on you.

Don’t be a liability.

Do that which satisfies you.

Admin and organisation

Most truly successful people have one secret.

A very simple one.

Not a ritual, or protocol or supplement.

Its a practice that they have either had thrust upon them or is inately part of who they are.

Good personal administration.

Making sure the correct item is where it needs to be when its needed. Making sure the correct paperwork has been filed.
Making sure they have kept up their contact network efficiently.
Making sure they have prepared to be on time the majority of the time.
Making sure they have the support network they need.

Some of us are better than others, many achieve fantastic things in spite of thier percieved inability to be “organised”.

More of us are discovering that we are neurodiverse and have been fighting an uphill battle against our own unique pyschology.

That feeling that we are pushing water all the time, while others are gliding smoothly ahead.

They are simply swans. Paddling furiously against the current while looking effortless.

For the rest of us, good admin means finding the correct tool. The unique system that allows you to remember where to be, when, and with what.

Not lots of them, as that adds layers of chaos, but one, or maybe two.

For me, it starts with mind maps and spider diagrams. this allows me to get the noise in my head onto a screen. Ideas are recorded in a notebook. Appointments are on a big wall planner. Family information goes on a white board in the kitchen. It all builds constructively and allows for good communication.

I like the pocket notebooks from Kurzgesagt (https://shop-eu.kurzgesagt.org/collections/pocket-notebooks) as I am a supporter of their channel, but you can find lot of others ways.

What has this to do with fitness, health and being a better human?

Everything.

If you find it challenging to exercise, as there is not enough time, find a tool that helps you choose. If you find meals and nutrition a barrier, look for a way of planning ahead and removing those blocks. If you’re under stress due to constant tardiness, take a few moments to look ahead.

For me, I am always slightly late for things as I remember a hundred other things that need to be done just as I’m heading out, underestimate the time taken to complete that task, constantly believe I can time travel, and can never find the kit and keys i need.

I’m working on it, and so can you.

Good admin can save the world, just a tiny bit.

On: Inputs

You are the sum of your inputs.

Obvious, really. But go deeper. Look in a mirror. What you see is the cumulative effect of your past.

You. Are. The. Sum. Of. Your. Inputs.

Everything you consumed, whether that is food, fluid or information. The external influences surrounding you. The choices you made.

Sometimes we cannot change our external influences. Whatever some 20 something instagram influencer may say, you always don’t get the choice about where you currently work, where you live or the demands placed upon you by life.

But you do get to choose the nutritional quality of what you eat, what you drink, the activity you do and how much time you spend on specific activities.

If you don’t like what you see in the mirror, start to change it.

Look hard. Not at the superficial aesthetics, but at your root health, fitness and attitude and work on those.

Less time idly scrolling through your phone, more time reading real books. Less pizza, more fresh food. Less sitting on your sofa, more activity.

Small positive changes can accumulate.

And of course, if you have any concerns with regards to your fitness, aches and pains and if you would appreciate professional support, we are here to help.

On: scheduling

There are 5 main barriers to exercise and lifestyle change.

  • Enjoyment
  • Access
  • Convenience
  • Affordability
  • Environment

Enjoyment: if you don’t enjoy the activity you aren’t going to be able to sustain it. This is not the same as not enjoying it during, when it’s challenging and perhaps painful, but whether it provides a sustainable level of enjoyment that reinforces its benefits over the discomfort.

Access: if you can’t access the appropriate facilities to support the activity then you aren’t going to participate. For example, if you like swimming but the nearest pool is 15 miles away then you are not going do it. Similarly, if the only gym is in a building with stairs and you are less mobile then you won’t go.

Convenience: you’ve found an activity you enjoy and a place to do it. But the timing is wrong, the only available slots or classes are when you are at work, or putting the kids to bed then you aren’t going to make it work.

Affordability: even if the location is good, it’s an activity you enjoy, and the timings are convenient. Another block is affordability. If you cannot afford it you simply won’t be able to do it.

Environment: you’ve got the activity, you’ve got the access, you’ve got the convenience. You can even afford it. The last one is environment. If it feels wrong, or doesn’t allow you to feel right then you won’t do it. From dark streets in the ending preventing you in feeling confident running, gym bros laughing and filming everything, to a crowded and cluttered family lounge preventing a home workout, the environmental barriers can be quite subtle but significant.

Simply being aware of these potential barriers can help all concerned, from health and exercise professionals to patients and clients, plan and adapt their goals to better serve their outcomes.

On: Dosing

On: Dosing.

The dose is important. If you take too little of a medicine, it is ineffective. If you take too much it will kill you.

The same stands for training, or almost any action. Too little and you will experience no benefit, too much and you will burn out. Of course, this effect tends to be cumulative, and with training, too much may not be immediately obvious.

Which is why finding your baseline, and seeking professional input is vital, particularly when starting out or attempting a specific goal.

Once you’ve set a goal, seek an expert to tune it and succeed.

On: Training

You’ve been in the gym, in the pool, or on the road. You’re turning up, putting in the hours. And yet, you’re not improving. The weight isn’t shifting, the personal bests are not rolling in, the same old faces as the same competitions still shake your hand, the race finish time is about the same as last year. You can’t actually do more miles, or lift more weight, as other commitments would suffer, and you’re on the cusp of overtraining.

Frustration abounds.

But…. are you training or exercising? We can too often convince ourselves that we are training, simply because we are going through the motions and turning up. The difference? Exercise is exertion, training is progressive overload with rest and retesting points. Fitness posers exercise, gym bros exercise, older people in village halls exercise. Exercise is good, its vital to positive health, but past a certain point it won’t necessarily lead to the changes you’re wanting.

However.

Perhaps there is another way.

Take a break. A few days off, or if that sucks mentally, a few easy days. During that time, define some baseline movements that matter to your discipline. A defined distance for running, swimming or cycling. A set of lifts that matter, a benchmark workout.

Then go for it. Have a test week. If you can’t measure it, you can’t manage it, and if you can’t manage it, you can’t improve it.

See how good you are, push it and draw a line in the sand. Go far, go fast, go heavy.

Take the results, sit down, with an expert if you can, or yourself and a pad if you have a good training knowledge.

You can always get stronger, improve mobility, hone skill, but then look honestly at what you’re good at, what you need to improve, then broaden the scope. Actively look for the weaknesses. Can you improve your nutritional base line, your sleep, your recovery?

Write a plan, stick to it, record, then in 6 weeks, do it again.

You will get better.

Maybe, finally, your power to weight ratio will improve, your 5K time will crack the that precious mark, your bear complex will get better.

Test, reflect, plan, execute.

If you find mobility is an issue, an injury doesn’t respond to rest, you want some nutritional guidance, or another expert opinion, then come see us. With over 20 years therapeutic experience, 30 years of practical involvement in sport, and a unique perspective on life, we may be able to help.

Onwards.