On: Finding the one thing

Sometimes it takes only one thing to start the rock rolling, the pebble that is stopping the landslide of success.

Sometimes, once you find that one thing, everything else falls into place and it becomes brighter, easier, smoother.

However, finding that one thing is very difficult, as it is different for person, goal, and phase of life.

And sometimes, it doesn’t matter what the thing is, as starting anything can help.

Maybe you want to lose weight for health reasons (there aren’t really any other valid ones). Maybe you feel you need to improve your fitness (there could be a couple of reasons here), perhaps you feel stuck in a relationship (a multitude of reasons in there), or you’re at a fork in the road with regards to career.

Lets take health (we are a health organisation after all) and weight management. There is ostensibly a simple recipe for this. You want to lose weight, burn more calories than you consume, you want to gain wait, eat more. Now, lets take into consideration motivation, working and life paatterns, underlying health status, stress, prior exercise history, gender, nutritional history and current nutritional status and see how we go? Which one thing is going to unlock the magic box of slimmer?

For most people wanting to lose weight, it will simply being aware of what they eat and when. That awareness helps them tune their consumption. For others, who have a reasonably good grasp on it, moving a bit more frequently and with higher intensity could be the key. A more complex case might be the older person with underlying health conditions, who will need more close monitoring, motivation and coaching to ensure they maintain both good nutrition and reduced risk.

To find your one thing, contact us for a consultation. We don’t just do manual therapies, we support weight management journeys, fitness plans, proactive healthcare discussions and personal accountability coaching.

Doom loop

Dieting will not work long term.

You will not sustainably lose weight until you address the factors that made you fat in the first place. You may shed some timber for a specific event, or a short period, but it will not stay off and you are likely to get heavier if you don’t address the underlying factors.

Whats going on?

You are, in some way, a victim of the doom loop. You almost certainly weren’t born fat. You probably weren’t fat as a child, and then at some point you started to gain weight.

Lets start with a period of stress and inactivity. Perhaps exams, psychological issues, peer pressure and bullying at school, a family crisis, an illness leading to hospitalisation, or at least a time of recuperation. The inactivity is the important bit. This initial phase can be coupled with increased caloric intake for comfort eating / poor nutritional availability and so forth.

For most people, especially if there was a period of bed rest, some muscle mass is lost, or at least a significant reduction in exertion, as well as some fitness. This leads to a reduced caloric requirement as well as a shift in the endocrine (hormone) status. However, most people don’t account for this (and why would you, you’ve got other things on your mind), so gain a little bit of weight.

Not much, but just enough that, in combination with the loss of fitness, it adds up and the return to activity is hard work.

For most of us, the generally fit and healthy adults, especially if you’ve been reguarly active, we suck it up and get back on with it, the weight gain goes again and we break out of the issue.

However, far too many unconsiously remain inactive, or keep being kicked around the loop.

And, having seen the weight going up, the dress not fitting quite as well and generally not feeling quite so good about it all, we often attempt to correct course, either through exercise or through caloric restriction.

However. Both of these, and especially dieting is stressful. Cortisol increases, changing the way our body burns fuel, and for some of us, reducing the amount of energy the muscles use (probably an evolutionary throwback, since you are essentially inducing a famine state in the body by eating less so burning less is a good survival strategy). As we said ealier, you can lose weight short term but eventually the body will replenish the stores and it’ll all go back on again.

Now we’re into the doom loop. We are trapped in a cycle of stress / weight loss / weight gain / inactivity.

How to break out of it?

Don’t diet. Don’t even cut back on calories. To start with, don’t really go for it and hit the gym.

Your body needs to move regularly and have less stress to deal with.

And even if you can’t get rid of the external stress because the world is going crazy and the bills are stacking up and the dog next door like barking at the moon, then you can control the internal stress.

Drink less alcohol. Stop smoking. Go to bed for 8 to 10 hours. Turn off the social media firehose and stop scrolling netflix at 1am.

Then move. Just 5 minute movement snacks. You don’t even need to break a sweat, Non exercise related activity is how we should spend most of our lives.

The big secret the fitness industry doesn’t want you to know.

They’re lying to you. They have been for years and maybe even they’re lying to themselves.

They’re selling you all these messages and machines and plans and regimes. And they’re not going to work, leaving you disappointed and looking for the next big secret. The next short cut.

So, what is the secret they don’t want you to know?

Exercise won’t make you lose weight. Diet won’t get you fitter.

All the booty classes and HIIT training and smoothies and shakes don’t work alone.

Maybe if you’re running 5-6 hours plus a week then yes. You may lose some weight. You are going to create a significant enough caloric deficit to see a difference. But not much and not for a sustained period. If you don’t back it up with a solid refuelling and recovery strategy.

You’ve got to do both, in the correct proportions.

Look at a visually super fit person, that influencer, gym bunny. Not only are they exercising frequently, they’re looking after their nutrition. They’re not completing the circuit class and immediately down the coffee shop for a syrupy latte. The inside is reflected on the outside.

Exercise is for fitness, nutrition is for weight management. The combination leads to improved health. Which is reflected in your physique.

You don’t need their latest method or protocol or supplement. It’s been said before but you don’t like it because it’s hard and slow and repetitive and dull.

  • Eat to sustain activity, refuel and recover.
  • Eat occasionally for pleasure.
  • Exercise to improve muscle mass
  • Exercise to improve cardiovascular health
  • Exercise to maintain balance and skill
  • Exercise because it’s fun
  • Do it regularly and seek healthcare advice when something seems wrong for a while.

Simple is not the same as easy. But consistency and iteration works.